Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders

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Will you go along with everything he wants, or will you decide it’s all too yucky and pretend you lost the book? Those erections feel good to the man, and a moment spent discreetly readjusting things can make them feel even better… Men are also used to casually handling their penises every time they visit the bathroom or use the shower. Early on I bought the book and asked my wife to read the first 30 something pages just to help her know where I might be coming from. And every time he is remind of the device, he’ll also be reminded of the person who controls it – you. If your man is to play a sport that’s incompatible with the chastity device he normally wears, then you have no option but to remove the device while he does so.

She was puzzled at first, then slow to begin, but in time took up reaching me with one hand, or sometimes by mouth.

Some of the more economical tube-type designs are built from half of a pair of police-type handcuffs. Part of that may be due to biology, though it sure also goes back to the way most of us have been brought up, with boys encouraged to be decisive and daring and girls encouraged to be desired and demure. Your pleasure will become his pleasure as he strives to serve, and to deserve your gift of holding (and eventually using) his key. Male Chastity is so much more than a way to spice things in the bedroom: it is a path towards a better understanding of men's sexuality and women's needs. Settle down to watch a movie together, or to have a conversation … only you can know what will truly please you.

Professional-quality units (such as those used by the police) are more escape proof – but also much more costly; if you’re spending serious money anyway, then you might be better off selecting a fully customized design. Teasing, denial, and uncertainty are all part of an erotic game that’s highly stimulating to the male libido. If it’s something you want, and if he truly feels submissive toward you, then it’s not something he wants either. So relax, and empower your chastened man to meet as many of your needs as possible; that’s exactly what he craves to do.Your chastened man’s need to please and serve you arises from his submissiveness, which is intimate linked to his sexuality, and which increases with his denial.

In other words, it is possible for a submissive man to feel incredibly horny, while at the same time preferring to be kept locked up so that he will feel even hornier in future, and so that his woman’s empowerment (and his own submission) can be more perfectly expressed. If he thinks he wants to be kept in chastity but can’t manage this, then you have to question how he’s going to cope with actually being locked up.The reason is simple: the submissive kink is much, much more widespread in men than the dominant kink is in women. This raises the possibility that a man who spends extended periods wearing a device that effectively prevent orgasms (or who refrains from ejaculation for any other reason) may be increasing his long-term risks. Does it mean you should only engage in a limited range of sexual behaviors, a range sanctioned by your parents, friends, church or social group? Alternatively, if you wish to reassure him, you could touch or fondly whatever is reachable (which might just be the enclosing metal or plastic at this point) and tell him that you’ll miss his penis and wish it wasn’t necessary to keep it confined for so long (but that it’s for his own good).