It's not often that one comes across a work so honest, brave, and filled with a wealth of fascinating facts and invaluable tips about the vessel we live in every single day. It was so powerful to see from a woman's perspective how men can forget basic decency and respect so quickly when it comes to sexual pleasure. So, she made a fuckit list of the things she d like to try - among them slow sex, ejaculation, different types of orgasm, being sexual with other women, BDSM, sex parties and making porn and set out on a journey of discovery. A refreshingly honest look at the "dull, slightly porny" sex I suspect a lot of single Western women of my generation are having, but not talking about.

But I wonder to what extent women of colour, women of varied levels of abilities, or transwomen, or gender queer women will relate to the book. Yes, the topic is relevant and should be talked about, but the author's depressing alcohol-fuelled oh-so-British approach to dating is just so evidently the main problem that it kinda goes without saying.

These cookies help provide information on metrics the number of visitors, bounce rate, traffic source, etc. A humorous, self-deprecating, and self-effacing but intelligent and inquisitive narrator takes us on a belated journey of sexual self-discovery that is both educational and liberating. Kirjassa Holmes käy omaelämäkertamaisesti läpi omaa seksuaalista matkaansa ja seikkailujaan hauskalla ja viihteellisellä tyylillä, ja yhdistää sitten kokemuksensa tiukkaan yhteiskunta-analyysiin ja paukuttaa naisten seksuaaliseen asemaan liittyvät ongelmakohdat ja faktat tiskiin.

Traz ao de cima aquilo que queremos, mostra-nos a necessidade de bater o pé e de nos fazermos valer, traz o desejo por uma revolução do próprio desejo que nos move. It’s brilliant and I can only say that if you don’t read this book then you’re missing out (seriously! Só os conhecendo a fundo saberemos levá-los na direção certa, da forma mais saudável e prazerosa possível.It starts with the author having a disappointing, drunken wank to internet porn, and ends with her having day-long orgasms and taking on the most powerful newspaper in the country. At times, the jolly tone and self-depricating humour got on my nerves (the latter is fortunately lost more and more), sometimes all the tantra praising was a bit much and I'd really prefer it if authors didn't feel like they need to equate women with vaginas and men with penisses in every other sentence. I don't hand out five stars much, but this book is such an 'important' read that I'll do it anyways. When it came to sex she still felt like a novice: she lacked confidence and felt incapable of asking for what she wanted. For years and years, I’ve lived my life as a woman who has been told about sex and shown about sex from a man’s perspective.